Lessons Learned

One year ago Patrick lost his job.

Never did we imagine that this would be a trial we would have to face. But here we are, and after quite a trying year, possibly the most difficult we have yet faced in our marriage we are hopefully coming out of it as better and stronger people. There is no denying that we have learned many things, like...

*There are worse things then losing a job

*Not having health insurance is not the worst thing in the world

*Never did I think that something would happen to my husband making it so I was fully responsible to take care of everything and everyone in our family. A year ago if you would have told me that, I would've told you I couldn't do it, but I did. And I now know I am stronger then I ever thought I could be and I will, and have, done whatever it takes to take care of my family, even when it really sucks! I didn't do it alone, there was tons of love and support from our family and friends and most definitely from our loving Heavenly Father.

*Helplessly watching your husband be in pain and suddenly not being able to walk or do things on his own and not knowing what is wrong or knowing that there is nothing you can do to help is just about the worst feeling ever.

*Preisthood blessings are amazing. I knew this before, but never have they been so A-MAZ-ING and helped us through so much.

*The Lord sometimes answers prayers in ways you never ever would've expected.

*He also places people in your path that you need. Sometimes it is a friend, sometimes it is an amazing surgeon who instantly knows something is wrong and knows just how to fix it... and is willing to do it even though you don't have insurance.

*Prayer is an amazing thing. Again, I knew this before, but some days it was a million prayers for help to just get through the day that carried me through. And sometimes when I just didn't think I could take one more step, it was the tender mercies that He blessed me with. Like a friend calling and after I broke down in tears to her on the phone, she came and picked me up to take me out for ice cream, or a feeling of love and comfort from the Spirit, or the strength to handle just one more day. There were prayers answered every day.

*My kids are pretty amazing. With everything on me, I found I just couldn't always do it all, and had to rely on them to help. Over the summer they learned how to empty the dishwasher, help separate, fold, and hang up the laundry, how to help clean the bathrooms, and how to help with Landon. They were awesome!

*My sister is pretty awesome! She was such a blessing to me over the past year. She is the only one who I truly told all the good, bad, ugly, and even uglier to. She always encouraged me and strengthened me. I would call her in freak out mode and she would somehow always know what to say. She was such a blessing! I love her to death and can't tell her thank you enough.

*This past year have been so extremely hard and seemed to have more trials then I ever saw coming. But it has also been a year of the most blessings we have ever received as a family. Every one of us has been blessed, strengthened, and made better over this past year. We have never gone without anything that we needed and we have been brought closer together as a family. Some say that difficult times like what we have been living through will either make you stronger in your marriage or break you.  I'm so grateful that it has only made us stronger and closer.

We really have learned so much this year and have been blessed more then we should have and for that my heart is full with love and gratitude for all those who have been there with us through out all this.

"Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28

Patrick's Progress

It has been 5 months now since Patrick's surgery. We are so happy and excited about his progress and the strength he has regained. In the past 5 months, he has made some amazing progress. In August he was "released" from his surgeons care, which basically means that he is doing so good that the surgeon doesn't need to see him again. Also the surgeon was really impressed and amazed at how quickly Patrick has healed and how well he was progressing. He is able to do most thing on his own now, including going up and down the stairs, something that took over 3 months of physical therapy and healing to do. He can get in and out of bed and chairs on his own now, something he was not at all able to do when he came home from the hospital, but now does without assistance. He can stand for longer periods of time. When he first came home, he wasn't able to even stand up long enough to wash his hands or brush his teeth, he had to sit to do those things and now he has no problem doing them. He is able to lift Landon up to sit on his lap or to change his diaper.... something I have missed his help with. :) Last week he even walked for the first time without any help from me, his walker, or cane. Something he has not been able to do since about last February. Amazing!!! I can not even describe how happy, excited, and grateful I felt as I watched him walk. I'm not gonna lie... it brought tears to my eyes to see him doing so well! He has been working so hard several times a week on his physical therapy and is quite often very sore from all his hard work, but it is paying off and he is healing and slowly returning to his normal state. 

We have continued to be abundantly blessed over these months since surgery. The Lord has definitely watched over and provided for us. Many prayers have been answered and it has often been through the amazing members of our ward, our friends both near and far, and our very loving and supporting families. More then once we have been overwhelmed by the generosity, concern, and service, and love from everyone. Not a day has gone by that we are not thankful for how much service has been given to our family through this trial. We will be forever indebted to the Lord for all he has done for us, we can only try to return it all by serving others in the loving and generous way we have been served.

So we are hoping that in the next few months Patrick will be strong enough to walk all the time on his own, drive once again, and be able to tackle the job hunt again. I know he can do it! He is amazing!

The Joys of a 2 Year Old

Landon gets into lots of thing around here these days. Sometimes it causes a huge mess and drives me crazy, but sometimes it is just funny and makes us laugh. So those are the times I have to pull out the camera... to help remind me that he isn't always a terrible 2 year old. 

One day after Brayden had gone to Scouts, Landon decided he wanted to wear his uniform too. So the boys dressed him up in it and send him downstairs to where Patrick and I were. It was so funny! He looked like he was wearing a dress.

One day as I was cleaning the kitchen Landon was being pretty quiet, and all mother's of 2 year olds know that is never a good sign, so I went to go see what he was up to, and I find him trying to play on the computer with his Daddy's headset. He thought he was being just like daddy with them on.

Another funny one was where he tried to put on Conner's swimming trunks, only he got a tad confused with the mesh underwear part....

And he tried to put them on over his own shorts. 

He is a silly kid, and always keeps me on my toes! At least he's entertaining!

Landon Turned 2

A few weeks ago our little Landon turned 2!!! I can't believe he is already that old, it is going way too fast for me! We had a fun day playing with him. I made him some Elmo and Cookie Monster cupcakes because that is one of the few things he really LOVES is "Meh-mo" and Cookie Monster. He loved them!

He was pretty excited to open his gifts....

 He has loved this little bead maze toy that Conner picked out for him. Good call Conner!

 Mommy and Daddy gave him some fun books, and he looks at the Elmo one everyday!

 Brayden picked out these cute stuffed Cookie Monster and Elmo toys. Landon loves them so much and hugs them every time he goes to sleep. He carries them around the house all the time.

When it was time to have his cupcakes, he helped us sing "Happy Birthday" to him, it was super cute!

As much as he wanted to eat it, he was not so sure about it.....

He finally dug in, but didn't really like it getting all over his hand, so once we gave him a fork to eat with, he went to town on that cupcake and loved it!

That looks like one happy 2 year old!!!

Landon is such a fun little guy!  He absolutely loves to play with his big brothers. He is getting better at the whole talking thing and loves to sing with us.  He is quite the trouble maker and gets into just about everything he's not suppose to. He has the sweetest laugh and the biggest smile, and those qualities save his little life some days!!! He LOVES to go bye-bye in the car, he doesn't even care where we are going, if we mention someone going bye-bye, he runs to get his shoes and goes for the door. His little heart is broken if he doesn't get to go. Some of his favorite things are showering with his daddy, watching Elmo,  juice, string cheese, fruit snacks, ice cream cones, grapes or apples, doggies (as long as they keep their distance), "helping" to empty the dishwasher, Daddy's hats, his family, playing outside, balls, or any of his big brothers toys. He is becoming quite an independent 2 year old, which proves problematic most times, he thinks he can do anything his brothers are doing. He is such a lovable little boy. We just love him to bits and are so happy he joined our family 2 years ago.

Swim Par-tay!

While my sister was here visiting during my birthday, we took the boys over to their condo they were staying at to go swimming. This was Landon's first time actually getting in the water and playing. At first he didn't like it (the water was actually a little cold at first I think that was why) but it didn't take long for him to love every second in the water and wanting to jump off the sides like his big brothers were doing.  That kid has no fear... which gives me quite a lot of it!!!

It doesn't quite look like it, but he was laughing, he was starting to like it by this point.

Cute little baby Cater (my nephew) was also enjoying his first time swimming with his daddy.

 Brayden is becoming a little fish. He's a pretty good little swimmer!

  My niece Bailey was so fun to watch as she tried with all her might to kick and kick with everything she had to keep up with Brayden and Conner swimming around.

  

Uncle Jeff gave all the kids rides on his back across the pool, it eventually turned into ALL the kids piled  on him as he swam around. They all thought it was the greatest thing ever!

The boys absolutely love swimming! It was a fun afternoon with my sister and her family!

Another Year Older... Hopefully Wiser Too!

Well, it was my birthday a few weeks ago, and it was a fun day! My sister and her family were here and they helped Patrick throw me a fun day full of festivities!

 My sister took me out to Cafe Rio (one of my all time favs!!!) for lunch, then for a pedicure. We had party complete with a pinata that was found in a deep dark far back corner of a closet in my mom's house which inspired the festive siesta!

As soon as the boys got home from school, the party started!! We opened presents and hit the head off that donkey pinata like pros!

 Anyone else notice how much SMALLER the pinata is that I have to hit then the kids?? It's a conspiracy I swear! They were just trying to laugh at me on my birthday!!!

 After the party and presents, Patrick and I went out to dinner together for the first time in months! It was so fun! We had some to die for food.... some yummy sushi... among other things.

Then it was back home for cake and ice cream with everyone. Party hats were wore by all!!!

Landon...

 My cute niece Bailey...

This may very well have been the best gift of the day... a Red Velvet Nothing Bundt Cake. Holy deliciousness!! This may need to become a birthday tradition for me! Best. Cake. Ever!

Thanks to all my incredible family for making my birthday such a great day! I seriously have great people all around me!

Air Force Base Petting Zoo!

During the summer, Brayden's Cub Scout pack did a special summer activity every month. The first one was their trip to the Old Mormon Fort. The next one was a hike up on Mt. Charelston, which he LOVED, but I didn't go with him, hence no pictures. But he had a blast. The last one was a trip to the "petting zoo" over on the Air Force Base. But not a petting zoo with animals, nope! It was a "petting zoo" with tanks, helicopters, airplanes, old military trucks, motorcycles, and guns..... all things you would find on a military base. It was basically a little boys dream land. They got to climb on everything, sit in or on everything, and pretend to fly anything that was there. 

Despite the fact that Brayden had a pretty bad migraine that day, he still really wanted to go and see all the airplanes and tanks, so he did, and he loved it, even though he was feeling pretty horrible. Conner and Landon had a blast too. 

Here are some of the cool things we saw...

Some really huge guns that move all over... they were seriously HUGE!

Some old military trucks....

Some very cool helicopters....

Lots of very cool tanks. I was however surprised at just how small they are on the inside. I can only imagine how uncomfortable it would be to sit in those small spaces, in uniform, in the heat of the desert where our troops are fighting, with gear and several other people. Not my idea of fun!

More tanks, helicopters, some cool looking motorcycles....

And some big ol' guns and the cockpits of fighter jets. By the way... cockpits are incredibly small too, you can definitely not be claustrophobic to be a fighter pilot!

It was stinking HOT that day, even though we went at 8 in the morning, so after a hour of running around playing and climbing in and on everything, we finished out tour of the "petting zoo" with a Krispie Kreme donut from our tour guides. It was such a great scout activity. We all had a great time.